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Post by nor on May 13, 2013 23:48:44 GMT
How do you know when you have trust issues???
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Post by mdayjay on May 14, 2013 0:58:24 GMT
I know I have trust issues because every relationship I had had there was cheating or lying. Now I can't trust what anyone female says unless I have proof from her. Something I need to work on. She has to mean what she says and says what she means, but actions speaks louder....show me that she can be trusted.
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Post by paulie316 on May 14, 2013 1:04:41 GMT
I have trust issues cause I fell in love with someone who opted to have side relationships twice. She hurt me bad the first time the second time stung. Not trying to go there a third time. I'm a hopeless romantic but at the same time I'm not trying to be fooled again
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Post by mzeye on May 14, 2013 2:42:35 GMT
I been hurt we all been hurt but I will.never have trust issues. What someone did prior is not the next person fault. I see this time and time again, when someone has trust issues they get with the right one and mess it up because they do silly stuff,where u going, who is that etc etc. I guess to prevent that ppl should really get to no someone and make sure their heart is healed before jumping into something. I trust 100 until im giving a reason not too. Ppl with trust issues let alot of good ppl pass them by because they are afraid and their heart is not open. If you dont take risks there is nothing to be gained.
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Post by mzeye on May 14, 2013 3:13:19 GMT
Also ladies, think about it like this. You know you have trust issues when its hard to let ppl in and your sketchy about things. Life is about learning and growing. Ppl come in and out of your life to help you grow to your higher self. Im sure if we didnt go through bad rel that made the trust issues to begin with it wouldn't have made you the strong person you are today. Dont let the trust issues interfere with your future.
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Post by mdayjay on May 14, 2013 3:47:22 GMT
See Mzeye...that's the thing. I put my all into it. I don't ask questions. I left up to them to tell anything they felt free to like who, what, where, and why. No badgering nothing. Sometimes they did, sometimes not. The cheating and lying was on them and I am not and will put up with the petty childish bullshit anymore. The women I currently meet now are too grown to play these childish games. I'd rather be alone if that's the case. If your talking to more woman than just me be HONEST. Say so, so I won't put my all into something that will never come about. I feel when the right one comes along, ill know it, but they will have to put as much into it as I do. That's why I say show me you really want this.
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Post by mdayjay on May 14, 2013 3:50:12 GMT
Trust me....my heart is always open for those who are willing to share theirs with me.
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Post by mzeye on May 14, 2013 4:24:39 GMT
Awwwww, your right mdayjay. That I agree on. I do set my standard's high because I know I bring alot to the table so whoever I decide to date needs to come with it. Nobody has time for games, or lies. I believe in show than tell but there is alot of women who act crazy when they dont trust u. Even when ur.doing all the right things. Imagine being hurt 100 times, finally that 101 person whos doing all the right things gets punished for what 100 ppl did. Insecurity makes ppl do crazy things. I treat everyone with trust until they break it. Some ppl put the wall up immediately not given anyone chances because their too afraid to get hurt. But I also think when dating or trying to get to.know someone who is insecure I try to do everything I can to show them they can trust me and not worry but if they dont let me in and.push love away...they miss out. #true story
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Post by naynay on May 14, 2013 13:05:14 GMT
i dont trust from the gate at times ,but i always give people a chance but once i see that change is on some suspicious shit my mind starts to wonder and i start putting pieces together, like for example if im with someone and they got they friends and i got mine, but they treat thst one friend better then they treat me, ima suspect that its more then friendship goin on, i had that happen so many time, i been cheated on, heart broken, i been talked down to, lied to, but i dont let ppl just do what they want and say what they want, so to me trust is a big thing, i have a bigger heart so im able to date and not let that affect me..im able to have someone prove me wrong..if i feel like i trust you then we on a good note !!!
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Post by pandora2012 on May 20, 2013 0:13:21 GMT
When my Mind starts 2 filter the Experience I start 2 assume. IMPACT= Intuition is nothing more and nothing less than Recognition.
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Post by pandora2012 on May 20, 2013 0:20:32 GMT
Everybody has trust issues Ladies. Even if it's a second of scepticism. Some can Handle it and the others will have Trust Problems.
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